5. CAN’T LIVE WITH ’EM, CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT ’EM: OLDER MOTHERS’ AMBIVALENCE TOWARD THEIR ADULT CHILDREN

Abstract

There is a long history of interest in the concept of ambivalence, as the contributions to the present volume show. It is therefore somewhat remarkable that until very recently, ambivalence has not been explicitly employed in research on intergenerational relations in later life. Given the popular acceptance of contradictory feelings about parents (Cohler, 1983) and the frequent portrayal of such contradictions in cultural products (Reinharz, 1986), this may be a major gap in research. However, the question remains: Is some degree of ambivalence in fact characteristic of parent-child relationships in later life? If so, do participants in these relationships identify ambivalence when it occurs? Further, is intergenerational ambivalence related to other variables of interest? This chapter presents results from a study that addressed the issue of ambivalence in older parent-adult child relations. Measures of intergenerational ambivalence were developed and employed in a sample of 189 older women.

Citation

Pillemer, K. (2003), "5. CAN’T LIVE WITH ’EM, CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT ’EM: OLDER MOTHERS’ AMBIVALENCE TOWARD THEIR ADULT CHILDREN", Pillemer, K. and Luscher, K. (Ed.) Intergenerational Ambivalences: New Perspectives on Parent-Child Relations in Later Life (Contemporary Perspectives in Family Research, Vol. 4), Emerald Group Publishing Limited, Leeds, pp. 115-132. https://doi.org/10.1016/S1530-3535(03)04005-6